I turned 35 on January 7. It was quiet and delicious. I stayed home all day, except to pick some food up so that I didn’t have to cook and to pick up some more paint at Lowes as Tim worked all day on his day off on my birthday present: painting the office. It was all I wanted and now I have a beautifully painted room. For supper, we had pizza
and a cake that I picked out (at the store ), which contained 29 candles, as that was all that I could find and I thought it was an appropriate number, after all.
I sat around the table very happily with my chattering family and when they all sang Happy Birthday to me and I blew out all of my 29 candles, I had a huge, satisfied grin on my face and in my heart. Just a very good day.
I also: wore a very nice present from my mother-in-law, received a birthday check from my parents and a birthday card from Tim’s Grandma Polly, got a birthday call from my brother and aunt Frances and another one from my sister-in-law, Melody, and a carefully wrapped shoebox from Israel containing a little plastic container with a folded $2 bill in it that he had found laying around somewhere. He thought that I could use the container to keep my money in. Initially, he had been working on this project, which was abandoned in favor of the “money container” when I accidentally caught sight of it.
Thirty five is a sort of startling number to have as a birthday. It means that I am officially closer to 40 than to 30, while 18 still doesn’t feel that long ago. Just weird.
We also had a very generous couple who know us a bit offer, out of the blue, to babysit for free so that we could have a break, and so the weekend after my birthday we went out for Indian food and old-people shopping (heh heheh heh) to Home Depot, where we browsed interested-ly around, to Michael’s (where Tim expressed extreme disinterest) and then to Staples (where I was ready to go PRONTO and Tim would happily have lingered). We came home to find four happy kids, who had a great time, and a full batch of chili waiting in the fridge to be served as a meal, and two frozen meals in my freezer all of which I discovered in the night and day after they left!!! That is three meals that I don’t have to worry about, PLUS free babysitting…may they be blessed at LEAST ten times over!!! Awesome way to end my birthday week!
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I am reading Charlie and the Chocolate Factory to the boys right now after happily finding both the book and the (original) movie at Goodwill. Tonight i got to the part where Charlie finally finds the golden ticket and i was going to stop there for the night but relented when both of the two older boys begged me to read the next chapter too where Charlie goes home to tell his family. They jumped up and down and pleaded, and Gabe told me that he was so excited that he was shaking.
This book in particular has really caught Gabe’s imagination. It’s just so much fun to share good books with your kids.
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Zion: (heaving the bathroom scale over to the bathroom rug) Mom, don’t you want to see how big my feet are??
(His feet were 34 1/2 pounds big. )
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She stands in front of me
teething
and sleepless
again
wrapped in pink ballerina monkey pajamas
Her baby belly rounding out the front
Diapered bottom rounding out the back
Her feet stand in her brother’s shoes
splayed out on the wrong feet
Blond curls fuzz around her head
Dark-lashed eyes peer with interest into mine
her cheeks puff out and her gaze is bright
as she talks to me of “shoosh” (shoes)
I watch her face
this cheerful night-time friend
and hold her hand
my eyes smile back into hers
and I think
about how she makes my heart
feel like it could burst with joy.
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For a while, lately, I’ve been sort of taking a blog break. Writing down things here and there, but not necessarily publishing them. A breather. I feel like I am just doing the living, and the living is sweet, and I am savoring it.
The living involves lots of care of a one-year old who needs lots of lap time and nursing and holding and cuddling, and a four year old who loves to be held and needs tending and attention and help with sippy-cups/clothes/bathroom/shoes/etc, and a six year old who is very creative and artistic and always creating things or painting things and who has a ready, happy smile, and an eight year old who has two new front teeth that make him look a lot older and who needs help refocusing on school work that needs to be done and who enjoys reading and loves to laugh and a house and laundry pile which is ever reflecting the existence of all these people.
I feel like I’m just soaking life in, and watching each day pass with a smile, without the pressure of recording it, and it is good. But at the same time, I love to read back on the days that I have lived with these kids and have been surprised at all I would have forgotten if I hadn’t written it down, and so I’m trying to figure out the balance of the two.
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